Wednesday, August 18, 2010

More reflections DAP1 & 2

What I'm about to write here is personal and I don't mind sharing all these with my fellow group members as I thought this is a learning process and whatever that suppose to be out must be out. Out from my chest and hoping that this assignment will actually open up my eyes.

By the time we (Melinda & I) completed both the DAP session, I realized that there are actually patterns in my answers.
Key words such as:
WAITING
MISCOMMUNICATION
HELPING PEOPLE
CALM & HAPPY
LOVE


Metaphors such as:
BEAUTIFUL FACE: image/identity/status
BREAST: nurturing/mother
(I'm not so sure about this, correct me if I'm wrong)

Thoughts that I can to relate to both DAP drawing.
DAP1 About Grandma - My loving grandmother, I miss you alot
Obviously grandma miss all of us and awaiting for our arrival (waiting). She is always happy to see (happy face)us and will always provide us her motherly care (dominant breast) which I miss so much such as her cooking (very delicious although it is vegetarian), 'spiritual talk', folk tales, herbal, parenting and many more (love)(helping people). She do share with me her emotional part as well whenever Im with her such as the gossip and little arguements among her children (miscomunication).

DAP2 About Husband - My love, My inspirations
Stanley, my husband would pick me up from work when ever he is in Penang (waiting). He is always happy to see me after work (love). In relation to his work, he shared his knowledge on self enrichment with me (helping people). He is always looking for a better communication/relationship between us and also everyone around us (miscommunication).


I miss grandma so much and I will be back to Kuching end of the year to pay her a visit. Im abit worry about her, with all her thoughts in her mind and I know there is nothing much that I can do but listen. Been telling me the same story over and over again everytime I called her up.

I miss Stanley alot as well, the nature of his work requires him to travel frequently. Im waiting for his return as well.(jus like how grandma and Stanley waited). Im always looking for open communication and believe that better communication is very important in any relationship.

5 comments:

  1. hi, Shirley, TQ for he sharing. i guess the interacting with Melinda must be awesome! great experience... i am looking this as better communication skill :) (intra+inter)

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  2. Welcome...Melinda is awesome!! i haven finish sharing yet lo already got comment..so happy.

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  3. Thanks again, my dears for the wonderful compliments. I am also learning lah. By the way, as a beginner you did very well, I kou tau to you. hehehe.

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  4. Nola, sama sama belajar ok..Thanks to our wonderful sifu.

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  5. Thanks for the sharing for us to know more about you!

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